Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Let go

Every second of our lives, we fear something or the other. A fear as large as dying or a fear as small as flunking an exam. These fears sometimes reside in us and in this whole process we lose "living". We keep thinking bout it, its consequences. We panic ourselves, sob, stress our brain as if there are not enough reasons to be stressed about. But the point is if I keep thinking that I am going die, if I keep fearing it, and as human nature is, that fear tears me apart, makes me anxious and takes away life from that period, am I not wasting my time left when I am still alive ?

The mere thought of losing a loved one hyperventilates us so much. Why ? Keep away the sentiments and think practically. If that person is suppose to stay in our life, he will. If not let him go. Maybe it was not meant to be like u imagined. As they say, every tale cannot have a happy ending.

The anxiety will not fade away, the fear will not vanish, my brain will run 2 times faster than usual, thinking all the negative things. But why not try to let it be. Because you gave your shot. To goal or not is not completely in your hands. Because even if you aimed correct, the air might changed the trajectory and you may miss it.


Life is uncertain with its own ups and down. And no matter what, we have to face them. Stay happy when you are up, and manage to do the same when you are down, bear the pressure. (People with naughty mind can take this otherwise also :D ).

Friday, March 2, 2012

My Abstract Theories


Sometimes we live a reality in our dreams and sometimes we dream in reality. A truth, a fear keeps hovering around which reside inside us after a point of time. And just like a parasite, it starts sucking happiness from our lives. A movie quoted "life is about moment of impact. It can change our lives forever. But what if one day, you could no longer remember any of those? " It terrified me, when I imagined my life where I will be alien to all the moments collected so far in my diary of life. It will be nothing but a hollow space filled with helplessness.

Human nature has emotions. Some people know how to express them and some do not. We expect everything perfect, in place and "easy to get". But life is not easy. It force us every moment to not get what we want but achieve it. Life tests us and our strength. It is easy for me to write , that don't crib about things rather cherish them. But it is hard to follow.

So why not after we are done with cribbing, for once think about the moments which held a special place in our heart. Why not try to re-live them ? It may make us smile or sob. But why not let the volcano inside us erupt and let the lava ooze out ? (With lava I meant emotions :P )

Being optimistic is better than being a pessimist. Light is better than dark. Expressing is better than hiding. And a smile is better than tears (it save your eyes from getting puffed). The tree of hope will bear fruits someday and they will be as sweet as honey ! Because keeping your head strong and breaking free is far better than breaking down.